Silences

Arthur O'Shaughnessy

1844 to 1881

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'Tis a world of silences. I gave a cry
In the first sorrow my heart could not withstand; 
I saw men pause, and listen, and look sad, 
As though an answer in their hearts they had;
Some turned away, some came and took my hand, 
For all reply.

I stood beside a grave. Years had passed by; 
Sick with unanswered life I turned to death, 
And whispered all my question to the grave, 
And watched the flowers desolately wave, 
And grass stir on it with a fitful breath, 
For all reply.

I raised my eyes to heaven; my prayer went high 
Into the luminous mystery of the blue; 
My thought of God was purer than a flame 
And God it seemed a little nearer came, 
Then passed; and greater still the silence grew, 
For all reply.

But you! If I can speak before I die, 
I spoke to you with all my soul, and when 
I look at you 'tis still my soul you see. 
Oh, in your heart was there no word for me? 
All would have answered had you answered then 
With even a sigh.

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Arthur O'Shaughnessy's Silences

Arthur O'Shaughnessy’s "Silences" is a haunting meditation on the human condition, exploring themes of existential despair, unfulfilled longing, and the profound isolation that arises from unanswered emotional and spiritual appeals. The poem, structured in three melancholic stanzas followed by a desperate plea in the final quatrain, traces the speaker’s journey through sorrow, death, and divine abandonment before culminating in a final, unresolved appeal to an unnamed "you." O'Shaughnessy, a poet associated with the Victorian era’s aesthetic and decadent movements, infuses the poem with a sense of lyrical beauty even as it grapples with despair. This analysis will examine the poem’s historical and literary context, its use of imagery and structure, its engagement with philosophical and theological questions, and its emotional resonance as a work that speaks to the universal human experience of seeking—and failing to find—response.

Historical and Biographical Context

Arthur O'Shaughnessy (1844–1881) was a British poet best known for his "Ode" ("We are the music-makers"), which celebrates art’s transformative power. However, "Silences" reflects a darker, more introspective side of his work, one that aligns with Victorian anxieties about faith, mortality, and emotional alienation. The mid-to-late 19th century was a period of profound intellectual upheaval, marked by Darwinian evolution, industrial alienation, and the gradual erosion of religious certainty. O'Shaughnessy’s poem can be read as a response to this cultural moment, where traditional sources of meaning—human empathy, death’s finality, and divine presence—all fail to provide solace.

Additionally, O'Shaughnessy’s personal life may have influenced the poem’s tone. Though not as well-documented as some of his contemporaries, his poetry often reveals a preoccupation with melancholy and unrequited emotion. "Silences" may reflect personal experiences of grief or unreciprocated love, lending it an authenticity that transcends mere philosophical abstraction.

Thematic Analysis: The Search for Answer in a Silent World

The poem’s central theme is the failure of communication—both human and divine—to alleviate suffering. Each stanza represents a different sphere in which the speaker seeks understanding, only to be met with silence.

1. Human Connection and the Limits of Empathy

The first stanza opens with an immediate cry of pain: "I gave a cry / In the first sorrow my heart could not withstand." The speaker’s vulnerability is met with a muted response: some listeners "pause, and listen, and look sad," while others "turned away" or "took my hand." Though these reactions suggest sympathy, they do not constitute true understanding or dialogue. The phrase "for all reply" underscores the hollowness of these gestures—while people may acknowledge suffering, they cannot truly answer it.

This stanza critiques the limitations of human empathy. The listeners’ sadness is performative, an echo rather than an engagement. The image of hands being taken without words suggests that physical comfort is insufficient when what is sought is emotional or existential reciprocity.

2. Death as an Unresponsive Confidant

The second stanza shifts from human silence to the silence of death. The speaker, "sick with unanswered life," turns to the grave as if it might provide resolution. The act of whispering "all my question to the grave" is deeply poignant, evoking the universal human impulse to seek answers from those who are no longer present. Yet nature’s response—"flowers desolately wave" and "grass stir[s] with a fitful breath"—is indifferent, even mocking in its passivity.

This stanza engages with the Victorian fascination with death and the afterlife, a theme prevalent in the works of Tennyson (In Memoriam) and Hardy ("The Darkling Thrush"). Unlike Tennyson, who tentatively reaches for faith in immortality, O'Shaughnessy’s speaker finds only absence. The grave’s silence reinforces the idea that death is not a gateway to meaning but an absolute negation.

3. Divine Absence and the Silence of God

The third stanza escalates the speaker’s search to the divine. The prayer rises "into the luminous mystery of the blue," suggesting both hope and vast emptiness. The speaker’s thought of God is "purer than a flame," indicating sincere devotion, yet the response is fleeting: "God it seemed a little nearer came, / Then passed." This momentary proximity only intensifies the ensuing silence, making divine absence even more unbearable.

This moment recalls the spiritual crises of Victorian doubt, particularly in the poetry of Matthew Arnold ("Dover Beach") and Gerard Manley Hopkins ("I wake and feel the fell of dark, not day"). O'Shaughnessy’s God is not malevolent but indifferent—a force that briefly acknowledges human yearning before withdrawing, leaving the speaker in greater isolation.

4. The Final Plea: Human Love as Last Refuge

The final stanza introduces a direct address to an unnamed "you." Unlike the generalized figures in the first stanza, this "you" is someone the speaker has loved deeply: "I spoke to you with all my soul." The speaker’s despair is now focused on this personal betrayal—not just silence, but the refusal of a loved one to respond even "with even a sigh."

This shift from universal to personal anguish makes the poem’s conclusion particularly devastating. The speaker’s earlier attempts to find meaning in humanity, death, and God all fail, but the failure of intimate connection is the most painful. The final lines suggest that human love, flawed as it is, might have been the only possible answer—yet even that is denied.

Literary Devices and Imagery

O'Shaughnessy’s use of imagery and structure reinforces the poem’s emotional weight.

Philosophical and Emotional Impact

"Silences" resonates with existentialist themes later articulated by thinkers like Camus and Sartre—the absurdity of seeking meaning in a universe that offers none. Yet it is also deeply emotional, capturing the raw pain of unreciprocated love and spiritual abandonment.

The poem’s power lies in its universality. Every reader has known moments of crying out—to friends, to the universe, to God—only to be met with silence. O'Shaughnessy gives voice to this profound human fear: that we are ultimately alone in our suffering.

Conclusion: The Enduring Relevance of "Silences"

Though rooted in Victorian anxieties, "Silences" speaks across time. In an age of digital communication, where connection is often superficial, the poem’s lament over unanswered cries feels strikingly modern. Its exploration of divine silence also remains relevant in a secular world where many still grapple with existential loneliness.

Ultimately, O'Shaughnessy’s poem does not offer resolution—only the stark beauty of articulated sorrow. In giving form to silence, the poem paradoxically breaks it, allowing readers to see their own unspoken grief reflected. That is the power of poetry: even in the face of silence, it creates a space where suffering is witnessed, shared, and, perhaps, momentarily eased.

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